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Just letting everyone know that during this time, I may be online very little. I’m a college student and I am also in a relationship. I work a job and have house chores to do, so due to the semester being over – I have little time to squeeze everything into. Which is driving me crazy because I have a few reviews for a few websites that I would really like to get done. I’m going to try my best to get them done during this time – but you might not see the majority of them until next month. I will do my best to keep posting off and on until then as well.
In lieu of Valentine’s Day passing, I’ve decided that I wanted to post a prompt in hopes that it will encourage bonding between you and your partner. I want you to think of at least 5 things that you love about your partner and if you can get your partner to do the same thing for you, have them do it as well. Then I want you to share the lists with each other – if you want to post the list on your blog, then do so. You can even think of creative ways to share it with your partner, like print the list and cut out each one to leave in places around the house for them to find through out the day. I know it may seem a little cheesy but how often do we lay the compliments on each other? I know I can be bad about it sometimes, I get so distracted by daily life that I forget to say something nice and it’s so simple. So why not make your partner feel good? I really hope that your partner will participate as well and give you compliments too – they are so simple, so why not?
Here is my list to share with my partner:
1.) Your patience (you are so great to put up with my emotional craziness from time to time!)
2.) That you are willing to do house chores. (You don’t know how much this helps me to have your help)
3.) You put forth the effort to make sure our relationship remains great.
4.) You’re a nerd
5.) You can make me feel like the prettiest woman on Earth even when I feel like I am the worst.
The face is number two in Dangerous Lilly’s current writing prompt series focusing on Erogenous Zones. If you are curious about it, check out her blog and join in!
As far as my face goes, my lips are the most sensitive part on my face. I love kissing my partner and feeling his lips against mine. Though I love just as much to feel different parts of his body against my lips as well. I love the feel of his skin when I kiss or lick his neck, ears (one of his major erogenous zones), chest, and stomach. I like to nibble and nip from time to time with my teeth as well. The second erogenous zone of my face are my cheeks, if my partner brushes them softly it can give me the shivers. I love having them kissed and caressed. I don’t know if you can count the ears in for the face, but I love to have my ear lobes nibbled at times. It can tickle as well as pleasure me.
My eyes aren’t one for me, but like Dangerous Lilly mentions – seeing is arousing me to as well. I enjoy looking at my partner as well as touching him. I also have a mild voyeuristic tendencies, so I enjoy watching him work as well as others at times. I never thought about it until Dangerous Lilly mentioned it – I have to close my eyes to fully concentrate on my pleasure as well. Or else at times I feel like I can’t achieve climax and I know for sure that I can’t if my mind is wandering off elsewhere. This has always been my dilemma from time to time. My world can be fast paced from time to time, I am a college student, I work 2 jobs, I run a blog, I have errands to run, and I have chores to do. So I am busy busy busy and it has been hard for me to figure out how to focus my mind at times during sex. Closing my eyes definitely helps and if I can manage to get lost in the moment, that helps as well.
I just found this out on Twitter today, September is “Pleasure Your Mate” month! I’m curious if my sex drive already knew and that’s why I have been all over my partner so much lately. Though it could be other factors such as lack of stress and being able to have privacy for once – but that’s another story. Does anyone have any particular plans for Pleasure Your Mate month? I’ll probably keep on doing what I am doing – but it’s a good time to pull out some fun toys during the session. I recently got my own Liberator Jaz in blue (thanks to Kinky World’s contest. So I have been having fun with that toy with my partner. It really helps to get to those super fun angles. I’m also itching to try out my new We-Vibe II with my partner because I have only tried it out solo so far. We are also planning on playing with Flexi Felix soon so we can explore a new area of our intimacy.
Hope you have a fun September as well!