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Wanton Wednesday
Apr 21st
Here is a picture of my cute belly button and I am wearing a pretty fake piercing from Nipple Charms. I will be getting a real navel piercing soon though and I am super excited.
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Give and Recieve: Compliments
Feb 17th
In lieu of Valentine’s Day passing, I’ve decided that I wanted to post a prompt in hopes that it will encourage bonding between you and your partner. I want you to think of at least 5 things that you love about your partner and if you can get your partner to do the same thing for you, have them do it as well. Then I want you to share the lists with each other – if you want to post the list on your blog, then do so. You can even think of creative ways to share it with your partner, like print the list and cut out each one to leave in places around the house for them to find through out the day. I know it may seem a little cheesy but how often do we lay the compliments on each other? I know I can be bad about it sometimes, I get so distracted by daily life that I forget to say something nice and it’s so simple. So why not make your partner feel good? I really hope that your partner will participate as well and give you compliments too – they are so simple, so why not?
Here is my list to share with my partner:
1.) Your patience (you are so great to put up with my emotional craziness from time to time!)
2.) That you are willing to do house chores. (You don’t know how much this helps me to have your help)
3.) You put forth the effort to make sure our relationship remains great.
4.) You’re a nerd
5.) You can make me feel like the prettiest woman on Earth even when I feel like I am the worst.
Weird Me Wednesday – Week 1
Feb 9th
I decided to follow suit to True Pleasures and try participating in the “Weird Me Wednesday” as often as I can. I’ll start off by saying that when I was younger in high school I was super obsessed with Anime and Jrock music. To the point where I would role play online as characters with my friends and watch and listen to it pretty much 24/7. I’m sure I even drove my family crazy. My room was completely decorated in pictures and posters related to Anime, Jrock, and video games. I was such an uber geeky nerd. My only regret is that once I got past that phase, I pretty much got rid of almost everything. I wish I kept some of the posters – they were pretty cool.
Erogenous Zones: Back and Breasts
Feb 3rd
My back is pretty much the one thing on my body, I ask my partner to touch the most. I absolutely love the feel of his fingers caressing my back, it helps me in so many ways. If I am anxious and need relaxing, him touching my back calms me in a way that nothing else can. If I am getting in the mood and I need more to get me going, I love to have the small of my back and sides stroked by his full hands or fingers. If I just need some type of contact with him, I will turn over in bed and ask him to touch or massage my back. The skin on my back is extremely sensitive and responds eagerly to any type of touch he gives me. Unfortunately the skin on my back can be so sensitive that I have to wash it and my sides with oatmeal soap to keep myself from breaking out if my bra rubs up against me too much. I will say that my partner’s back is one of my most favorite parts to look at. I don’t know what it is about it, but I love seeing his nice broad shoulders and his back looks so strong. I also love seeing the curve of it – it’s a huge tease trailing that all the way down and wishing that I could get a peek at his tush – but that’s another story. As far as kink goes, I have never really asked my partner nor has he tried to use any toy on my back, because it’s so sensitive – I don’t think I could really ever ask him to do so.
As far as my breasts go, growing up I became worried because I thought my breasts were broken. I never noticed my nipples become really hard when I was turned on and I never really got anything out of touching them or my nipples. I was very disappointed because I felt like I was missing out on something. I felt this way until I met my partner, now he can make my breasts feel a way I never could and doubt anyone else could. What I realized is that I really need strong sensation to get any where – not rough but strong. I get so extremely turned on when he pinches my nipples, to the point that they are practically my instant “on” buttons. I have noticed that I prefer him to use his teeth to nip at my breasts or nipples or even use them a little bit when he sucks on them. One thing my partner does that is an ultimate tease for me, is that he will circle my breasts in a spiral going from the bottom up to my nipple with his finger. He keeps going and as he gets closer and closer to my nipple, he will suddenly stop and go back the other way and start over. It feels so good, but it leaves my nipple longing for touch – but then that’s part of the fun of it. One other thing I have noticed is that the sides of my breasts are all little more sensitive so I enjoy when my partner cups them with his hands from behind me because the sides get more stimulation. As far as kink goes, I have never had my breasts flogged and I am not really rushing out to have my partner do so. For some reason, it seems like it would hurt. I think all I could maybe stand was to have the lightly brushed by a flogger. But then, you never know I may like it. I have used nipple clamps before – but I am still on the search for the perfect ones to suit me in the way I would like.
Thanks to Dangerous Lilly for the new prompt. Be sure to check out her blog to keep up with the prompts as well as participate in them.
