Erogenous Zones: Back and Breasts
My back is pretty much the one thing on my body, I ask my partner to touch the most. I absolutely love the feel of his fingers caressing my back, it helps me in so many ways. If I am anxious and need relaxing, him touching my back calms me in a way that nothing else can. If I am getting in the mood and I need more to get me going, I love to have the small of my back and sides stroked by his full hands or fingers. If I just need some type of contact with him, I will turn over in bed and ask him to touch or massage my back. The skin on my back is extremely sensitive and responds eagerly to any type of touch he gives me. Unfortunately the skin on my back can be so sensitive that I have to wash it and my sides with oatmeal soap to keep myself from breaking out if my bra rubs up against me too much. I will say that my partner’s back is one of my most favorite parts to look at. I don’t know what it is about it, but I love seeing his nice broad shoulders and his back looks so strong. I also love seeing the curve of it – it’s a huge tease trailing that all the way down and wishing that I could get a peek at his tush – but that’s another story. As far as kink goes, I have never really asked my partner nor has he tried to use any toy on my back, because it’s so sensitive – I don’t think I could really ever ask him to do so.
As far as my breasts go, growing up I became worried because I thought my breasts were broken. I never noticed my nipples become really hard when I was turned on and I never really got anything out of touching them or my nipples. I was very disappointed because I felt like I was missing out on something. I felt this way until I met my partner, now he can make my breasts feel a way I never could. What I realized is that I really need strong sensation to get any where – not rough but strong. I get so extremely turned on when he pinches my nipples, to the point that they are practically my instant “on” buttons. I have noticed that I prefer him to use his teeth to nip at my breasts or nipples or even use them a little bit when he sucks on them. One thing my partner does that is an ultimate tease for me, is that he will circle my breasts in a spiral going from the bottom up to my nipple with his finger. He keeps going and as he gets closer and closer to my nipple, he will suddenly stop and go back the other way and start over. It feels so good, but it leaves my nipple longing for touch – but then that’s part of the fun of it. One other thing I have noticed is that the sides of my breasts are all little more sensitive so I enjoy when my partner cups them with his hands from behind me because the sides get more stimulation. As far as kink goes, I have never had my breasts flogged and I am not really rushing out to have my partner do so. For some reason, it seems like it would hurt. I think all I could maybe stand was to have the lightly brushed by a flogger. But then, you never know I may like it. I have used nipple clamps before – but I am still on the search for the perfect ones to suit me in the way I would like.
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