Posts tagged erogenous zones
My back is pretty much the one thing on my body, I ask my partner to touch the most. I absolutely love the feel of his fingers caressing my back, it helps me in so many ways. If I am anxious and need relaxing, him touching my back calms me in a way that nothing else can. If I am getting in the mood and I need more to get me going, I love to have the small of my back and sides stroked by his full hands or fingers. If I just need some type of contact with him, I will turn over in bed and ask him to touch or massage my back. The skin on my back is extremely sensitive and responds eagerly to any type of touch he gives me. Unfortunately the skin on my back can be so sensitive that I have to wash it and my sides with oatmeal soap to keep myself from breaking out if my bra rubs up against me too much. I will say that my partner’s back is one of my most favorite parts to look at. I don’t know what it is about it, but I love seeing his nice broad shoulders and his back looks so strong. I also love seeing the curve of it – it’s a huge tease trailing that all the way down and wishing that I could get a peek at his tush – but that’s another story. As far as kink goes, I have never really asked my partner nor has he tried to use any toy on my back, because it’s so sensitive – I don’t think I could really ever ask him to do so.
As far as my breasts go, growing up I became worried because I thought my breasts were broken. I never noticed my nipples become really hard when I was turned on and I never really got anything out of touching them or my nipples. I was very disappointed because I felt like I was missing out on something. I felt this way until I met my partner, now he can make my breasts feel a way I never could and doubt anyone else could. What I realized is that I really need strong sensation to get any where – not rough but strong. I get so extremely turned on when he pinches my nipples, to the point that they are practically my instant “on” buttons. I have noticed that I prefer him to use his teeth to nip at my breasts or nipples or even use them a little bit when he sucks on them. One thing my partner does that is an ultimate tease for me, is that he will circle my breasts in a spiral going from the bottom up to my nipple with his finger. He keeps going and as he gets closer and closer to my nipple, he will suddenly stop and go back the other way and start over. It feels so good, but it leaves my nipple longing for touch – but then that’s part of the fun of it. One other thing I have noticed is that the sides of my breasts are all little more sensitive so I enjoy when my partner cups them with his hands from behind me because the sides get more stimulation. As far as kink goes, I have never had my breasts flogged and I am not really rushing out to have my partner do so. For some reason, it seems like it would hurt. I think all I could maybe stand was to have the lightly brushed by a flogger. But then, you never know I may like it. I have used nipple clamps before – but I am still on the search for the perfect ones to suit me in the way I would like.
Thanks to Dangerous Lilly for the new prompt. Be sure to check out her blog to keep up with the prompts as well as participate in them.
Part 3 in Dangerous Lilly’s erogenous zones writing prompts. Be sure to join in, I’m interested to read what people have to say!
As far as my hands go, they aren’t a major erogenous zone area for me. I like being able to touch with them and feel every inch of my partner’s body. I like to touch myself with them as well. Giving my partner a hand job is fun and erotic, and something my hands enjoy. Feeling with them is a major turn on for me and that is the main thing. Though I do like when my partner lightly touches the palm of my hand and fingers with the tip of his finger. My palms are very sensitive so I get and intense ticklish feeling that can be too much sometimes but I love the feeling. I do often hold hands with my partner when we are out in public, but that is more of a symbol of being together. My partner loves when I suck on his fingers, but for me – I really don’t get anything out of it when mine are sucked on.
My feet, well there is really nothing about them that turns me on. I’m painfully ticklish on the bottom of my feet so that isn’t really a turn on for me. I don’t like my feet being licked, kissed, or sucked on. I do like getting my feet massaged though, when I work I can be on my feet alot – so I great foot massage works wonders. I do like to spoil myself from time to time and get a pedicure, but that is about it. Nothing erotic about them really….
Dangerous Lilly started a series on her blog to talk about erogenous zones. If you are unsure of what erogenous zones are, they are areas of your body with heightened sensitivity, that when stimulated can cause you to become turned on. The first post is centered around your head and neck, I decided that I would participate and answer her question about what mine are.
The most sensitive area on my head is the back of my head, I love when my partner softly touches my head and it’s not any part – it has to be under my hair and on the scalp. It always gives me a tingly feeling that I can feel throughout my body. I always melt when he does it, it feels so good. For me, this is what would make me truly submissive to him. I melt like butter and feel as if I have no control over my body, so he could take me anyway he wanted to. I also enjoy hair pulling, especially when the grip is close to my scalp – not way out on the ends of my hair. It’s one of my favorite things for him to do in the middle of sex or even during foreplay. I agree with Dangerous Lilly when she mentioned on her blog that hair pulling is an art when done right.
As far as my neck goes, I enjoy soft kisses along the sides of my neck and the back of my neck. One of my favorite things for him to do is nibble and nip at the part on the sides of my neck that connects my neck to my shoulders. That is a huge zone for me and I love it, it can either tickle or just feel so damn good I want to jump him. It’s a major turn on for me. I also enjoy licking and sucking on my neck as well, it just feels so pleasurable. The only thing is I have to make sure that my partner remembers not to do anything to leave a hickey – which can take the fun out of it for me. It’s just because of the job I do – I can’t be seen with a hickey on my neck and I hate wearing turtle necks. They are so uncomfortable.